Unconventional Wedding Traditions: Making Your Wedding True To You

DJ drinks from a bottle of tequila during Los Angeles wedding at Edenale, captured by Connecticut wedding photographer Tyler Jordan Soucy

Skipping the Cake

Not a cake person? No problem. From doughnuts to pies to food trucks to cheesecake (my personal favorite), there are plenty of ways to treat your guests while staying true to what you love.

SMALLER GUEST LIST

Smaller weddings or elopements can make your wedding more intimate and less stressful. A smaller group of loved ones allows you to focus on meaningful connections rather than juggling a large crowd. Couples often find this approach helps them create a more personal experience for everyone attending. Alternatively, if you’re looking to throw the biggest party of the century, I’m also all-in!

First Look Alternatives

If a first look doesn’t feel right, consider other options. I’ve seen couples share a quiet moment together without seeing each other, like holding hands or simply checking in on each other around a door. It’s just as meaningful.

Unique Venues

We’re seeing fewer stuffy ballrooms and banquet halls as couples are opting for unconventional venues that reflect their personalities. From industrial warehouses and urban lofts to rustic barns and backyard gardens, the options are limitless. These unique wending venues provide the perfect backdrop for couples to create one-of-a-kind celebrations that are tied to their lives and leave a lasting impression on guests.

Private Vows

Sharing personal vows privately before the ceremony can take the pressure off and make the moment more intimate. It’s also a great way to have a special memory just for the two of you.

Interactive Guest Experiences

Make your wedding unforgettable by adding interactive elements for your guests. Think photo booths, mix-your-own cocktail stations, or even live painters capturing your day on canvas. These experiences not only keep guests entertained but also add unique touches to your celebration.

Inclusive Celebrations

Inclusivity should be at the heart of every wedding. From gender-neutral bridal parties to mixed-gender parent dances, it’s beautiful to see couples creating more inclusive wedding experiences for all.

Capturing Authentic Moments with Candid Wedding Photography

One movement that’s transforming weddings is the love for candid photography. These are the photos that capture the real, emotionally-charged moments that make your wedding day truly unforgettable and unique. Want to learn more about candid wedding photography? Read my guide to candid wedding photography.

Celebrating Individuality

Couples are adding more personal touches and unique details to their weddings that reflect who they are as individuals and as a pair. From DIY decor to custom wedding dresses and suits, weddings should celebrate your relationship in a way that’s meaningful and true.

Eco-Friendly Wedding Ideas

Sustainability is becoming a priority for many couples. From using recycled materials and digital invitations to choosing locally sourced flowers and catering, there are endless ways to plan an eco-friendly wedding.

Destination WeddingS

Dreaming of a destination wedding? Keep it simple by providing guests with a detailed itinerary and travel tips. Turning your wedding into a full weekend experience can help everyone feel included and make the event even more memorable.

Themes and Personalization

Adding a theme or personal touches can make your wedding truly one-of-a-kind. Themes based around your favorite movie or decade, and personalizing details like your playlist, signature cocktails, or decor can make your celebration yours. I photographed a Wes Anderson-inspired wedding last year that perfectly captured the couple’s quirky personalities and artistic style.

CONCLUSION: Make It Yours

Your wedding should reflect who you are. Forget the rules and focus on what feels authentic to you.

Tyler Jordan Soucy

Tyler Jordan Soucy is a documentary wedding photographer with a passion for capturing real moments. Based in Connecticut and also photographing weddings in New York City, Los Angeles and beyond, Tyler’s work focuses on authenticity, connection, and the natural beauty of each wedding day. His approach allows couples to be fully present, letting their celebration unfold without the pressure of rigid schedules or forced performances.

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